Its not a huge issue at all. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was sixteen, so I know what you’re going through completely. The thing is… You’re not missing out on much, so its best to wait. Women aren’t going anywhere, neither will your opportunities for sex. You have your whole life to get laid, but you only have a small window to develop your social intelligence. Many introverts develop their reclusive personality traits during their early teenage years. The best thing you can do is learn how to communicate with people effectively and create connections. If you want to have beautiful women in your life, then you have to learn how to be a leader of men. If other guys don’t think you’re cool, what makes you believe that women will? If you can’t create bonds with your own peers, its going to be extremely hard to do it with the opposite sex. So reflect on your social circle as it is now. Are your friends getting laid? If your friends aren’t good with women, then guess what? You won’t be either. Who you choose to spend your time with determines how far you’re going to make it in this world. Many guys choose to settle for lame friends because they have no other choice. If the relationships in your life are formed out of desperation and neediness, then they will always be fulfilling. The best hangs out with the best, and mentor the rest. A lot of guys come to me because they want to learn, and I’m glad to help if I can see that they have potential. Unfortunately in most cases most guys are beyond being helped. I’ve tried to help men who didn’t want to help themselves, and it was a waste of time for both parties involved.
For the kids that I do mentor.. I always ask them a simple question as a placement test to see where they’re at, I ask them;
"What do you believe women find attractive in a man?"
For men who don’t have a lot of social intelligence the answer to that question is usually superficial and empty. Many tell me that women want money, good looks, or a man that has a lot of material value. For men just getting into the game its easy to fall prey to this ideology because we have a lot of negative social conditioning concerning women. The media is good at selling us an image of the “perfect man”, when it doesn’t actually exist. The media preys on our negative emotions because they want to sell products. Insecurities are a multi-billion dollar industry. So much money is being made on making you feel inferior, and you probably don’t even realize that its happening. When I realized the truth it was the equivalent to Neo swallowing the red pill… The truth will always be hard pill to swallow. Once you realize that the world around you is filled with deception and lies, you actively seek out the truth because you understand that if you continue down the road that everyone else is..That will only lead to misery. The average guy isn’t good with women. The average guy is a prisoner to his insecurities and he buys expensive things, creates “cool” personas in order to compensate for his lack of confidence. The average guy is a fucking coward, a pussy…Most of the “men” you meet are pussies, all of them. They’re afraid of failure so they don’t even try to get better at anything. They allow their fear to stagnate their growth. Approval seeking behavior, fear of failing, fear of looking like an “idiot”…Its all pussy ideology that has been perpetuated by the media to sell us shit that we don’t need. The truth is if you continue down that road you won’t have many friends…well decent friends…and you damn well won’t have any women in your life. Being a pussy is unattractive no matter who you are. You can be the best looking guy on the planet, have the best car, the coolest clothes, have the money…But if you’re a pussy then all of those “strengths” turn into weaknesses.
Who you are now just isn’t authentic. You’ve been socially conditioned to feel inferior, so you now you feel the need to lie and manipulate people to get your desires met. Getting girls contrary to popular beliefs, has nothing to do with women…It has everything to do with you. If you believe that you’re awesome then other people will be sucked into your reality. Getting girls is just a side effect of feeling awesome. If you really want to improve then you need to surround yourself around people you admire. Find a mentor that is good with women, then learn from him. Find people that you think are awesome and turn them into your friends. Your immediate social circle should consist of people you look up to. They should be smarter, cooler, and more responsible than you are. You want to surround yourself with people you look up to because you want them to rub off on you positively. I guarantee if you change your friends, you change your fate. If you hang out with awesome people they will introduce you to other awesome people…Who will in return introduce you to hotter and hotter women. Cool guys get hot girls… This is the one thing that the media does get right, but their methods on how to become “cool” are manipulate and often false in order to get you to buy into the pussy ideology to sell you products. Gaining social intelligence doesn’t have a price tag….What it does require is balls. You need balls in order to be awesome. If you want friends that inspire you, and women in your life that you’re actually attracted to….Then you need courage. Courage is a prerequisite for confidence. You need courage to survive rejection-which you will receive because you’re still negatively conditioned- then after you’ve put your neck out enough and remained patient, you will gain confidence. Courage, Patience, and Confidence are the three attributes that women find attractive, and other men respect.
If you work on developing yourself in those areas, you won’t be a virgin for much longer…That is a promise. You will naturally be an attractive person.
May God bless you.