Anonymous asked:
Is it bad that Im 15 and a virgin? I dont know what to say to keep girls around if I be to honest they run and if I lie well thats not good either.

No.

Its not a huge issue at all. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was sixteen, so I know what you’re going through completely. The thing is… You’re not missing out on much, so its best to wait. Women aren’t going anywhere, neither will your opportunities for sex. You have your whole life to get laid, but you only have a small window to develop your social intelligence. Many introverts develop their reclusive personality traits during their early teenage years. The best thing you can do is learn how to communicate with people effectively and create connections. If you want to have beautiful women in your life, then you have to learn how to be a leader of men. If other guys don’t think you’re cool, what makes you believe that women will? If you can’t create bonds with your own peers, its going to be extremely hard to do it with the opposite sex. So reflect on your social circle as it is now. Are your friends getting laid? If your friends aren’t good with women, then guess what? You won’t be either. Who you choose to spend your time with determines how far you’re going to make it in this world. Many guys choose to settle for lame friends because they have no other choice. If the relationships in your life are formed out of desperation and neediness, then they will always be fulfilling. The best hangs out with the best, and mentor the rest. A lot of guys come to me because they want to learn, and I’m glad to help if I can see that they have potential. Unfortunately in most cases most guys are beyond being helped. I’ve tried to help men who didn’t want to help themselves, and it was a waste of time for both parties involved. 

For the kids that I do mentor.. I always ask them a simple question as a placement test to see where they’re at, I ask them;

"What do you believe women find attractive in a man?"

For men who don’t have a lot of social intelligence the answer to that question is usually superficial and empty. Many tell me that women want money, good looks, or a man that has a lot of material value. For men just getting into the game its easy to fall prey to this ideology because we have a lot of negative social conditioning concerning women. The media is good at selling us an image of the “perfect man”, when it doesn’t actually exist. The media preys on our negative emotions because they want to sell products. Insecurities are a multi-billion dollar industry. So much money is being made on making you feel inferior, and you probably don’t even realize that its happening. When I realized the truth it was the equivalent to Neo swallowing the red pill… The truth will always be hard pill to swallow. Once you realize that the world around you is filled with deception and lies, you actively seek out the truth because you understand that if you continue down the road that everyone else is..That will only lead to misery. The average guy isn’t good with women. The average guy is a prisoner to his insecurities and he buys expensive things, creates “cool” personas in order to compensate for his lack of confidence. The average guy is a fucking coward, a pussy…Most of the “men” you meet are pussies, all of them. They’re afraid of failure so they don’t even try to get better at anything. They allow their fear to stagnate their growth. Approval seeking behavior, fear of failing, fear of looking like an “idiot”…Its all pussy ideology that has been perpetuated by the media to sell us shit that we don’t need. The truth is if you continue down that road you won’t have many friends…well decent friends…and you damn well won’t have any women in your life. Being a pussy is unattractive no matter who you are. You can be the best looking guy on the planet, have the best car, the coolest clothes, have the money…But if you’re a pussy then all of those “strengths” turn into weaknesses. 

Who you are now just isn’t authentic. You’ve been socially conditioned to feel inferior, so you now you feel the need to lie and manipulate people to get your desires met. Getting girls contrary to popular beliefs, has nothing to do with women…It has everything to do with you. If you believe that you’re awesome then other people will be sucked into your reality. Getting girls is just a side effect of feeling awesome. If you really want to improve then you need to surround yourself around people you admire. Find a mentor that is good with women, then learn from him. Find people that you think are awesome and turn them into your friends. Your immediate social circle should consist of people you look up to. They should be smarter, cooler, and more responsible than you are. You want to surround yourself with people you look up to because you want them to rub off on you positively. I guarantee if you change your friends, you change your fate. If you hang out with awesome people they will introduce you to other awesome people…Who will in return introduce you to hotter and hotter women. Cool guys get hot girls… This is the one thing that the media does get right, but their methods on how to become “cool” are manipulate and often false in order to get you to buy into the pussy ideology to sell you products. Gaining social intelligence doesn’t have a price tag….What it does require is balls. You need balls in order to be awesome. If you want friends that inspire you, and women in your life that you’re actually attracted to….Then you need courage. Courage is a prerequisite for confidence. You need courage to survive rejection-which you will receive because you’re still negatively conditioned- then after you’ve put your neck out enough and remained patient, you will gain confidence. Courage, Patience, and Confidence are the three attributes that women find attractive, and other men respect. 

If you work on developing yourself in those areas, you won’t be a virgin for much longer…That is a promise. You will naturally be an attractive person.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
What are the best books for business people or entrepreneurs looking to be more successful and grow money with integrity and confidence?

I’ve read four books in the past year that have really helped me get my feet off the ground *which I’ll list later*, but before I give them to you I want to answer your question. The hardest part of growing any business is getting started. There are a lot of fake “entrepreneurs” who believe that selling screen-printed t-shirts make them a “designer”….Or just because they buy a DSLR that automatically makes them a “photographer”. Everybody is looking for status titles that will gain them recognition in society. Some of the common status titles are Actors, Designers, Artists, Athletes, Musicians…People want these titles because they believe that wealth and fame are synonymous. Most men want to be famous because they believe that will make them “rich”, when this just isn’t true…. I was reading an article the other day about a famous quarterback “Vince Young” filing for bankruptcy. He was famous but that didn’t mean he was necessarily rich. Many of these “ballers” who live beyond their means only have status icons; mansions, cars, jewelry.. But don’t have any actual wealth. We have terms for it… “negro rich” , “30 thousand dollar millionaires” …Ect. It is completely possible to make a lot of money, and still be poor. Making more money doesn’t solve poor financial management. The first lesson that you’re going to learn as an entrepreneur is how to be fiscally responsible. Most self-made millionaires aren’t famous….Nor do they go around in designer clothes and “stunt” on instagram. A man that has to show off his wealth, doesn’t really have any to begin with. If you notice, its mostly poor people who go out their way to prove to everyone else around them that they’re not actually broke. Illusions of grandeur will kill any chance that you have to be successful. Most of the millionaires that I’ve met dressed conservatively, and were modest people. They didn’t need to show off because they didn’t have to impress anybody.

Most of the money that you make in the beginning of your start up doesn’t actually go into your pocket…It is invested right back into the company. Chances are you won’t see any money until liquidation when your company goes public…That is even if your business even makes it that far. I laugh at these kids who think they’re cool because they have a “clothing brand”. Most of these fools are selling 100 dollar t-shirts and taking that money and buying expensive designer clothes. Its completely stupid to me. If you want your business to last then you can’t waste your profit on irrelevant shit. Your goal as a founder is to grow your business, not your wardrobe. Again, I could go on and on about this subject. I’ve been an angel investor in many start ups, and the first thing that I notice that is wrong with “entrepreneurs” is that they’re too worried about trying to look cool. Many of these new age entrepreneurs are afraid of failing which is why many businesses don’t make it very far. Being an entrepreneur means that you’re going to fail….A lot.  When I mean a lot, I mean that every 100 ideas you have only about five of them will actually make you any real money. Being an entrepreneur is hard, you’re going to spend most of your early years broke, and the little money you do get will be risked on another failing idea. It takes balls to make money… Which is why the business isn’t for every man. If you really think its for you then I suggest checking out these books:

Fastlane Millionare 
Rich Dad, Poor Dad
The 4-hour Workweek
Seven Habits of Highly Successful People

I have more books, but these should be great if you’re just getting into the game.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
any tips to prevent you from cumming fast?

Most problems men have sexually are psychological, rather than physical. Chances are there is nothing wrong with you besides the fact that you lack sexual confidence. The main reason why men can’t keep their erections in bed, or have a lack stamina during intercourse is

Negative social conditioning (Watching too much porn)

Nothing is more damaging to your sex life than watching porn. Porn is the psychological equivalent of eating fast food. Not only is it harmful, it prevents you from achieving your sexual potential. When you watch pornography you train your body to respond only to your touch. Many men who have a porn addiction find it difficult to remain erect during actual intercourse. Why? This is for two main reasons; you can’t truly enjoy women if you have been fed negative social conditioning about them. Porn plays on the deepest insecurities that men have. Mainly the lack of size, dominance, and sexual confidence. Many men believe that the sex in porn is actually how sex is in reality, when this is further from the truth. I’m not saying that real sex lacks any flare, but a man that has a porn addiction will have unreasonably high standards of sex for every woman. He expects that every girl is a porn star, and they want to be treated a certain way in bed. He will expect women to do certain things that they aren’t comfortable with.  Not every girl enjoys dominant sex, some women want emotional passionate sex but a man that watches too much porn will quickly put all women in the same category. Porn also objectifies women into sexual objects, and makes them automatically submissive. Men who have porn addictions find it difficult to even connect with any woman without trying to fuck her; Ironically this leads to these men not receiving a lot of sex because they lack social intelligence….Which unfortunately only reaffirms the porn addiction, because to some men a digital satisfaction that is the only way to have “sex” with women of a certain caliber.  The second reason why porn is destructive is that it teaches men to cum quickly.

Masturbation is a very personal activity that a lot of men have insecurities and shame over. Most men only watch two to three minutes of porn to be able to orgasm. The speed of the orgasm is parallel to the circumstance. When you’re masturbating your main goal isn’t to get caught in the act of doing it. Because of the shame around being “found out” , a man that has a porn addiction loses a lot of sexual confidence. Next time you masturbate notice how quickly you do it, and you will understand why you can’t last in bed. You have a lot of shame built up in your mind, and the only way to release yourself is through sexual liberation. You need to overcome your limiting beliefs around sex or you are going to be horrible in bed. The only way to get better in the sack is to constantly practice. You should have a healthy sex life, meaning you should be having sex at least four times a week or more. Personally I have sex over ten times a week because I have a high sex drive. The point is if you’re getting laid in real life, then you don’t have a need to watch porn when you can have sex whenever you want. Now there are certain exercises you can do such as holding in your piss as you pee for a couple of seconds and then releasing it, and keep doing it repeatedly over and over which strengthens your PC muscle…Or you can use thicker condoms….

But all of it is pretty much useless if you don’t get over your physiological limiting beliefs about sex. My advice is that you stop watching porn, and stop masturbating. Try to go a month without masturbating and see how your sexual drive improves. Personally I don’t masturbate, and I haven’t watched porn in a year and a half. I’ve seen dramatic improvements in my sex life. I have more energy, I can last longer, and I have no shame regarding my sexual confidence. I also have a stronger urge to approach women since my sex drive is always high. Women can see in it in my eyes and the tone of my voice that I’m a sexual being, and it leads to a lot more opportunities for sex. Try it out, and let me know how it works.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
In college, how did you work out everything out like when you were a freshman? How did you manage yourself to be prepared from school, work, staying fit like sports and all your hobbies? I will be getting the Lyceum hard cover.

When learning how to increase your productivity, there is a law you should abide by. Parkinson’s Law.

Parkinson’s Law states that; work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion. Which means the more time you give yourself to complete a project, the longer you will draw it out. So for example you have a project due in six months, and it takes two hours to complete, what should have been quick and easy will expand to fill the entire completion time. A.K.A. Procrastination. Since the project due date is still a six months away, you give into the illusion that you can do it whenever you want…..A.K.A. The last minute. What should have taken two hours to get done, has now expanded into six months to complete because you gave yourself too much breathing space. This is what most students in school do. They wait until the last minute to get a paper done, or study for a test and it negatively affects their work. Now some people are use Parkinson’s Law to their advantage, which is what I’ll get into next. Another example is cleaning your room. Say you have a friend coming over in a hour and you want to clean up so you’re not embarrassed. Since you know your friend will be at your house in an hour, you will expand the work to fill the entire hour. Now say your friend says that they’re coming over in half an hour, you will increase your productivity to make sure your work is finished in 30 minutes. This can lowered into 20 minutes, 10 minutes, five minutes to clean up…. No matter the time given, your productivity will be adjusted appropriately. You will always get the same result, because your work will adjust to the time you given it. When you give yourself shorter deadlines the quality of your work will improve because there is no room to screw around.

The point is the more time you allow yourself to slack off, the harder the work becomes in the end. If you know you have to get something important done, its better to get it done as quickly as possible. Make it a priority.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
How do you deal with approaching a woman who is surrounded by her male friends?

Don’t worry about them, and continue to go directly after what you want.

You shouldn’t let other men get in the way of obtaining your desires. If you’re going to let a small obstacle such as the threat of competition stop you from pursuing what you want, then you really don’t deserve it in the first place. You don’t deserve women in your life, if you don’t have the balls to go after them. This is your role as a man……You must go after what you want, or else you will never get it. Women appreciate courage in a man more than anything else. A man that goes for what he wants without hesitation is attractive. Being direct and unapologetic about your intentions is peacocking behavior. When women say that a certain guy is “different” from the rest of men, this is what they mean. Only an alpha male has the balls to go directly after what he wants fearlessly. The majority of guys don’t have the audacity and boldness that it takes to attain beautiful women, so they end up settling for girls that really don’t attract them. Most guys are so worried about being rejected by what they really want, that they allow that thought to dictate their actions and stagnate themselves. If you’re too invested in an outcome, you block yourself off from actually making it an reality. If you’re so concerned about what people think about you, then your sense of entitlement will shrink because you won’t think that you’re worthy of actually getting what you want. You will start to think that you’re not rich enough, good looking enough, or smart enough to get what you want….Which are all ridiculous rationalizations that your ego will make up to stall you from taking action. I’ve seen some men actually sabotage themselves when they get close to being successful, because they feel that they would be judged by their peers as not being worthy if they actually got what they wanted. An example of this is a guy who doesn’t go after a girl that is clearly into him, because her friends tell him that he isn’t good enough to have her.

The reason why so many men end up in the friend zone-which is what the guys who around her are in- is because they’re not clear with their intentions. They believe that sitting around waiting for a girl to notice how “good” they are is a plan that actually works. The thing is, women will only start taking you seriously once you start being direct about what you want. If you’re really interested in a girl, then tell her…. Don’t stall, or hesitate. Rejection is a apart of life…..You won’t always get what you want, but at least you had the balls to try. The question comes down to this;

Are you really going to sit back and let what you want pass you by?

I’d much rather get rejected going after what I want, than be a coward who doesn’t go after it in the first place….Being a coward is much worse than being a failure. Being a repeated failure means that eventually you will figure out what works. Every man that has ever achieved greatness was a failure at some point or another. If you want to be successful with women and in life in general, then you must realize that you’re going to lose more than you will win. That is just life……But you shouldn’t give up on what you want so easily. Just because things aren’t going your way doesn’t mean you should quit. You may get rejected by this girl because you don’t have enough social intelligence to attract her….But with every rejection it gets easier and easier. Realize that failure is the process toward success. 

It all starts by mustering the courage to take action.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
young-guts asked:
Hey Rhay, How you doing recently? I've notice that you were kinda erase from the earth. Until I notice your Q/As are still being answered. Why Have you stopped taking sneaker photos. And why did you stop posting on your ANTI FB page?

I’ve changed subtly over the past few years. One of the changes I made was that I stopped trying to impress other people. Approval seeking behavior is the reason why so many men fail, because their version of success is defined solely on how other people respond to it. I no longer look for validation in any area of my life, and as a result I’m now a stronger,smarter, and wealthier man. I no longer take pictures anymore because I have no one to please other than myself. Taking pictures of material possessions for instant validation is one of the worst approval seeking behaviors. Ask yourself this question; How much money would you spend on sneakers if you didn’t have anyone to impress? Chances are you wouldn’t spend so much of your time/energy/money investing in a culture built on insecurity. 90% of the kids still in the sneaker game are using sneakers as extensions of their insecurities. They’re trying to cover up their flaws by trying to impress other people with a “sneaker collection”.  Every purchase that they make only solidifies their egos, until the point they start to believe that what they have is who they are. If you take away the designer clothes, 2000 dollar sneakers, and fancy photos they take on a daily basis…..Many of these guys really don’t have anything else to show for themselves. 

Some men get addicted to the attention and the spotlight. Likes/re-tweets/follower counts are ways for some men to feel better about themselves because they lack self-esteem. The point is that you can’t cover your insecurities with a bunch of fancy clothes and shoes. Eventually you will have to face yourself, and when you look in the mirror you’re going to have to come to grips with the persona that you created. You can fool everyone around you, but you can never fool yourself. If your life isn’t going the way you want it to, then external validation that you receive from other people is pointless. It took a while for me to get my life together, but it all started with deleting and letting go the most precious things to me. My facebook/instagram/blog it was all preventing me from reaching my full potential as a man. I could never become who I was meant to be, if I was trying to live up to what people expected. I don’t know if that makes any sense but its a truism that I realized. We live in a “pat on the back” society.  Everyone is trying so hard to be liked and approved of. Its rare to see anyone actually doing something that genuinely makes them happy, most people only do whatever gets them the most praise.

The internet is an outlet for people to escape their problems by creating personas. The persona is a false identity that is created by the ego. Your ego will always be your worst enemy because it needs attention and validation to survive. The moment you challenge your ego for supremacy that is when the internal war in your mind begins. I’ve been waging war against myself for a long time, and now the man I want to become is now emerging from the battle. The Rhay that you knew well on facebook and instagram  no longer exists, I destroyed him. I no longer identify with my ego. I don’t think I’m better than anyone else anymore. I don’t feel the need to respond against the people who hate me anymore. More importantly I don’t feel the need to impress people with what I have anymore. I’ve reached a level where nothing affects me. There is nothing anyone can do to manipulate  me, or make me resort back to the person I used to be. I don’t care about followers *you can unfollow me if you want*…I don’t care about popularity, attention, validation, or any kind of instant gratification that comes from expressing myself in an non-genuine way. I won’t allow myself to sink back to that way of living anymore….I’m above all of it.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
What's your personal opinion about karma? For some reason I feel that all of the negative aspects of karma apply to me, but I really never get the good side of it. I'm always helping people, trying to do the right thing, avoiding drugs/alcohol, etc but I really get nothing in return. But when I slip and make a mistake, karma gets back to me real hard. I know a lot of assholes from school who are just the worst people yet they seem to be living the 'life' now and I'm just here dreading my future.

*I don’t know if you’re a man or not, so I’m assuming that you are*

Sometimes you have to know when to break the rules.

Its hard being a man in this current society. We’re currently in a strict post-feminist reality, where most men are confused to how they should behave. We’re taught from an early age to be good little boys and do everything right. Unfortunately, this mind-frame isn’t healthy and rarely produces the results that we want. The men who do get what they want aren’t “nice”. The men who get anything out of life are dominant-not domineering- but they learn how to assert themselves until their reality yields what they want.. “Nice” guys never get what they want because they lack those two fundamental attributes; Dominance and Assertiveness. Without dominance a man can never hope to have the power to compete against other men, let alone get what he wants. If you’re lacking in dominance then it means that you’re settling in all areas of your life..Relationships, financially, mentally…The cause of which is a lack of assertiveness. If you’re not direct about what you want, you will never get it. Being assertive is apart of being a masculine man…Its okay to be demanding..Its literally the only way you’re going to get people to take you seriously. 

I personally do believe in karma, but I also believe in the law of attraction. The law of attraction states that like energy attracts like energy. If you’re in a positive mood, then you open yourself up for positive things to happen to you. The opposite is also true. If you’re in a rotten mood, then you attract negative experiences to overwhelm your reality. People who sit around miserable, are depressed because they are attracting negative energy. Right now you are soaking in negativity like a sponge, and it is the reason why things aren’t going your way. Instead of focusing on the negatives in your life, consider everything positive. It may be harder to be optimistic, especially when you have a cynical view of the world…..But as I said you’re the one dictating your reality by the energy that you let into your body.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
theheisenbergeffect asked:
I'm Looking for a good book to read, any suggestions?

I’m currently reading David and Goliath by Malcolm Gladwell. But here is a list of books that I’ve read recently that may give you some ideas;

1. Personal Development For Smart People; By Steve Pavlina 
2. Unlabel; By Marc Ecko 
3. The Millionaire Fastlane; By MJ Demarco
4. Tribal Leadership; By David Logan
5. The Secret; By Rhonda Byrne 
6. New Earth; By Eckhart Tolle 
7. Delivering Happiness; By Tony Hseih 
8. The Maze Runner Series
9. The Divergent Series 
10. Awaken The Giant Within; By Tony Robbins
11. Focus; By Daniel Goleman
12. The Tucker Max Series 

If you want you can follow me on twitter, I give out Books all the time that I’m reading. Twitter: @rhay1991 

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
Rhay, I really need help finding my inner confidence. I've read all about approachingand everything, and it's not working. What is wrong with me?

There is nothing wrong with you. The problem is that you’re not internalizing the information correctly. There is a difference between just reading material, and actually learning it. For example; I could read a book about shooting a basketball, but is that going to make me a better shooter per-se? I could read a book about surfing, but is that really going to give me an extra edge in the water? There is certain information that you must learn through application. If you really want to improve with women, then you have to learn through repetition. You have to approach women everyday. What is your game plan? Do you approach women everyday, or do you do it when its convenient to you? When I was first starting off I created a strict game plan that I stuck to. My game plan was that I would approach 20 new women a week. No matter where I was, or what I was doing…If I saw a girl that I was interested in, I would approach her and say something simple like;

"Hi my name is Rhay, I don’t have much time to talk but I think you look interesting, and I would like to get to know you"

It was THAT easy, and After we chatted for a few minutes I would say;

"I have to go, do you know how we can talk again?"

Seven times out of ten, she would offer her number to me if I did everything correctly. 

That was my opener and close when I was a beginner. They were simple, effective, and straight to the point. They weren’t fancy, but it did the job. I used these while developing my social skills , and I managed to accumulate over 100 numbers in two months. *Getting numbers isn’t hard at all….Most women will give you their number and reject you later* Now out of those 100 numbers about half of them never called me back because they weren’t interest, but I was left with a solid 50 numbers that wouldn’t flake. Out of those 50 numbers, 20 of them would produce dates. Out of those 20 dates, ten of them would be topped off with sex. So I was sleeping with ten new women a month *safe sex of course, always be careful*. Since i’m a decent small talker, and a great dresser that helped me out immensely as well. The point is if you don’t put yourself out there, then you don’t know what you may be capable of. This isn’t just about picking up girls, its about improving your social skills as a human being. I can tell you right now that you will receive a lot  of rejection, I still get rejected and my game is solid. Out of ten girls I talk to, I may be able to pull three of them…But that isn’t bad at all. Matter of fact if that would be translated into a batting average; .300, I’d be a superstar. Can I pull every girl I talk to? No……But I learned how to genuinely communicate with people without feeling nervous or self-conscious. I can walk up to almost anybody and make a solid connection with them. I can walk up to a group of ten girls and hold their attention and make them all laugh, and when I single out the girl I want…I can pull her. This is social intelligence that comes with time. It took me three years and approaching over 3000 girls in order to overcome my social anxiety.

It all starts with going out there and putting your balls on the line. If you see a girl that you’re interested in….Approach her. Don’t make excuses…Summon every ounce of courage that you have, and take action. The worst thing that can happen is that she isn’t you, which isn’t as bad as you believe….At least you had the courage to approach. That puts you above most men, because most guys are too pussy to actually approach girls. The bottom line is if you don’t take action then this area of your life will be lacking. If you want beautiful women in your life, then you have to go after them. Stop worrying about being rejected…It happens to all of us. The difference between men who aren’t good with women, and men who are….Is that they don’t take it personally. There is an abundance of women that you can practice on. Go out there and face your fears, and prove to yourself that you don’t have anything to be afraid of. Go….Do it…


May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 7 months ago
Anonymous asked:
There's this girl I like and we go to the same school, we may run into each other for 3-4 minutes every other day. How do I break of the "How was class? How's studying going? How was your weekend" cycle? I want to start having real conversations with her.

Listen…… Stop thinking and just approach her. Don’t worry about what you’re going to say, because chances are that you’re going to fuck it all up because you’re too nervous anyway. Just go up to her and be direct with her, tell her that you like her and get it over with. Don’t be such a pussy. Nothing horrible is going to happen. The worst thing that could go down is that she isn’t attracted to you, and if she isn’t. SO FUCKING WHAT!? Its not a big deal, nor is it the end of the world. At least you were a man and went after what you wanted, instead of just letting it walk past you. That is what separates a man that gets what he wants, and a coward that sits around mastubating to women he doesn’t have the balls to approach. Even if she isn’t attracted to you, she will respect you because most men are cowards and NEVER say what’s on their mind. You have to get over this fear of approaching women, or you’re not going to do it,and do you know how you’re going to get better? You have to fucking approach…over and over…That is the TRUTH. If you don’t go after her, you will lose her. You either take action, or you continue to make excuses for why you’re not taking action. Excuses are for losers, and losers don’t get laid. You’re so worried that you’re about to get rejected that you haven’t even considered the fact that you just may succeed. The key to getting girls is learn how to create positive energy and give it away. If you’re spending so much of your time thinking negatively, then your thoughts about women are going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don’t believe that you deserve beautiful women in your life, you won’t have any. Your sense of entitlement must expand. You’re entitled to whatever you feel entitled to. It isn’t arrogance, its believing that you deserve better in your life and won’t be satisfied until you get it.

There isn’t any magical “line” or conversational topic that is going to make her attracted to you. If you go up asking her question after question, then she will get bored with you and quickly find a way to ditch you. Your objective for the first five minutes is to prevent yourself from saying something stupid. Most women are very friendly when you first approach, and may give you the benefit of the doubt for having balls….But women can turn into evil creatures when they figure out that you’re a fucking creepy, attention seeking little bitch. So your first task is to not set off her creepy radar. Most men fail with women because they come off as “creepy”. Creepy means that you’re awkward. Avoid awkward pauses between topics, they will kill any attraction. Also, make sure that your body language isn’t weird. Stand up straight, make eye contact, don’t stumble on your words…..These are things you should be consciously aware of.  Women pick up on the smallest details of your character, even the shit that you think doesn’t matter. For example; the way you’re dressed….Your hygiene… All of these areas must be addressed because you can have the best game in the world but if you smell bad, then it won’t make any difference. As far as the topics of conversations that you could talk about….Don’t worry about that. If she likes you then you will find talking to her easy. If she doesn’t like you then she will make things difficult for you, until she brushes you off completely. Not all women will be into you, which is fine. Don’t let that discourage you, just move onto the next girl. It isn’t a big deal…

But before you even get to the point where you two can have a “real” conversation… You have to stop being a pussy and approach her. Don’t sit around waiting on her to make a move on you, because it will never happen. If you want her in your life, then you have to go get her. She may want to talk to you as badly as you do….But you won’t even know until you grow a pair of balls, and try……Just fucking TRY…..

May God bless you.

-Rhay.

posted 8 months ago