By overcoming your fear of talking to women, and just going up and DOING it. Women respond to men with confidence, because there is so few  men with it…Or believe in themselves. They believe that their insecurities are the reason why they fail with women..They believe the way they look, or what they drive is the reason why they don’t have the “pretty” girl..When its really the way they behave that holds them back the most. What you have to understand is…Getting women isn’t hard, its just society brainwashed you into believing it is. We’ve created a vicious cycle where the harder a guy tries the more pathetic he come across; and the harder a woman plays hard to get…. the more a man wants her, which makes her want him even less..It’s a terrible cycle of L’s being handed out daily. This is the problem that we’re living with. Most women are already validated by most guys, they need more than just validation from the man they choose.  There is a reason why its not that uncommon to see the most beautiful girls with the guys who aren’t necessarily the stereotypical “hot” guy. A man with great game, can smoke a man with great looks…Or with money. Mainly because he isn’t insecure, and he has worked harder on how he comes across to women. There is no such thing as looking like an idiot approaching women.. What is an idiot? Most guys can’t even TALK to women. They’re too afraid to. They would rather stand on the wall, and talk to their “homies” about their crush…Then go home and jack off to them. That attitude will get you NO WHERE…and you will be depressed forever..Until YOU do something about it.

May God bless you.

-Rhay. 

I started off reading 48 Laws of Power when I was sixteen. I believe EVERY man that wants to be successful, should read it. Or at least skim through it and take out the most valid points, and apply them. At the moment I’m reading The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.

May God bless you.

-Rhay. 

Going up and talking to her, and not being afraid of rejection.  I can give you in depth advice….But it will be useless if you don’t get your confidence to the point that you’re unafraid of getting a negative reaction. That is the first step….Getting out your comfort zone, and facing your fears. THAT is attractive to women.

May God bless you.

-Rhay. 

You must be ruthless with your mind and emotions. Negative emotions will kill any chance of you being successful. Don’t even let negative thoughts form in your mind in the first place. It sounds tough…..But being successful in this world is about improving internally. Its not about changing or manipulating other people to get our way. The buttons that we have to push is on ourselves. This is what I did, and now this is what I want you to do… I want you to take out a sheet of paper and a pen, for everything you feel insecure about write it down. So for example;

1. I’m depressed because I don’t know what I want to do with my life.

Now, after you wrote that negative thought down… Think of three things in your life that ARE going right.

 1. I’m graduating high school. That is a accomplishment on its own.

 2. I have people in my life that support me, and encourage me. Some people don’t have ANYONE who cares about what they do with their future.

3. The fact that I am stressed out about my future, means that I have accepted the fact that my life is under my control..and I’m willing to do whatever is necessary in order to be successful. 

Write down five things you’re insecure about, and for those five things you must come up with three things that you feel are positive in your life. When you do this, you realize that you have more things going right, than wrong. Once you pull yourself out of that negative mindset then you can focus all your attention on what matters. When you’re straight out of high school, you don’t need know exactly what you want to do with your life. I say go to college and list that you are undecided. Take a couple of courses that you think sound interesting, and if you love one of them more than another then you can decide to take it a step further and make a career out of it. Never let anyone rush you into making a decision. This is your life, and it is up to you….and you only to decide what you want to do with it. My key to being successful is this…. 

Think of what you love to do, then market it on a massive scale.  The fact of the matter is, you can do something for the money that comes with it…But you will only be happy doing something you don’t mind not getting paid for.

May God bless you.

-Rhay. 

What you have to understand that there is a such thing as “timing” , in a social interaction. Women feel weird about escalating a situation with a man, because they will feel cheap. As a man you must take over to a large degree, because a woman won’t. If men and women we’re “equal” in this regard then women would approach men, when we know this isn’t socially acceptable. Men approach women. 

She may give you signs that she is interested in you..But if you believe for one second that she is going to “chase” you, you’re mistaken. That isn’t how it works. Nothing will happen between two passive people, who like each other. It will be a stalemate every time. Eventually the attraction will burn itself out, if you don’t take advantage of it. That is why she isn’t talking to you anymore…Because you made her feel as if the situation is going nowhere. Or you have made it seem as if she must do all the work, which will turn her off completely…Because you are taking from her, without giving something to her emotionally. What I want you to do is next time you see her, go up and talk to her in person. Be dominant in your conversation, make her laugh……

She already likes you, so she will do her best to make it “easier” for you. She may even laugh at your jokes, even if they’re not funny because she wants you to feel comfortable with her. After teasing her a bit, don’t fucking stand there because that will lead no where….Ask to go take her to get some coffee…Or if its after school already you can go get some food if you two aren’t busy.

*Never anything expensive though….That will ruin everything*

You must be dominant, in every way. Already have the date planned in your head, so you’re not making this up along the way. As you two walk to your car *if you have one* , what I like to do is walk an arms length in front of her and hold my hand out behind me gesturing for her to take it. Nine times out of ten, she will take it. That is what turns women on…That confidence. When a woman knows that you are in control, it makes her feel safe.

May God bless you.

-Rhay.